How To Stop Being A Victim & Start Creating Your Life

How to stop being a victim
This is one of the most transformational decisions you can make.
When you truly decide to say “hell no”  to other people affecting your vibes and take responsibility for your own experience of life.This opportunity comes up every day. For us to decide how we will react to other people, whether we will fall into the blame & excuses pattern of why something did or did not happen to us.

We get to make that choice everyday.

From my own journey and experience, when I come from a place of full responsibility for my own life, and I take control of my inner power in all situations. My life flows better, it is filled with more love, abundance, and I feel much more true to myself and authentic.

100% responsibility  =  Inner Power

In this space we are not giving our power away to any one else. We are taking control of our own lives.
When we blame or point fingers we give up our power, and we will feel deflated, drained and out of control of our own lives.When we choose to take charge of ourselves & we decide what we are capable of being, doing and having, we can go beyond the pain of our “stuff” and our issues, and create the life we want to live.Everyone has a past, and we can all get stuck there from time to time, in our memories of the past and what has happened to us, involving family, friends, romantic relationships etc.

If we get stuck in the pattern of blaming the situation and the person, that we had no control over, and using them as excuses as to why we are not stepping up and living the lives we want to live now, we are giving away our power!

“Your power is valuable to you, it’s what you are here to share with the world!”

Yes it’s true. We may be the recipient of external forces outside our control, but we have the control over our reactions and responses in what we do and how we handle it.Starting to look at our responses and ourselves might shake us up a bit. It means we might have to make a move, do something different, or try something new.  This can be scary.

Steps into your inner power:

1.  Always come from your heart. With Love. 

2. Take 100% responsibility for your life. Make the decision that it is up to you. 

3. Meditate daily to connect with your grounded, balanced centre. Build this balanced centre up like a muscle.

4 .Lots of self-love. Look after yourself. Pamper yourself. Give yourself love.

5. Empower yourself with “I can” and “I will” positive statements. 

6. Remember the saying “Change begins with me” 

7. Take an action step, however small  it may seem, towards something you want to attain.

8. Step outside your comfort zone. It’s where the magic happens. 

9Pick one thing and decide you’re going to respond differently.

10. Be aware of yourself when you feel you may be becoming defensive and ready to blame. Embrace a different mind-set. 

This type of thinking and acting isn’t always easy, but it is worth it and you will see magical changes happen in your life.

This video explores more :

“You Create Your Life”


Love  Sarah xx

(Your Soul Cheerleader to True Health)




Soulful Health Coach at Hooked on High Vibes. Helping you create true health & inner power. Sharing transformational tools to create a limitless life you love.



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-You want to know more about yourself, to get in touch with your authentic self, to feel empowered in your life and learn how to truly love your beautiful unique self.

-You want to feel good in all ways, body, mind & soul. Your ready to do the work of diving deep and committing to the journey of growth.

-You feel like something is missing and you want to feel peace in your mind instead of constantly searching.

-You love self development, but feel like you haven’t got the tools to take you to the next stage that you are wanting.

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-You are excited by change and to learn more about yourself. To really get in touch with your soul, your essence, your own heart and inner power.

-You want to feel as good as you know you can feel.

– You will do your all to get there.

-You want to feel at home in your mind & body.

-It is the next stage of your journey. To light up your life.


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